From The Eyes of An Observer

This debate has been on going for a very long time. Does a girl mind dating someone is younger than her? A radio show conducted it before. In fact, when you run a search on Google! with unique such as ‘dating younger man’ or ‘dating older woman’, you would run into about 50 million entries. No Joke!

Honestly, I’ve participated in this debate or listened to this debate for twice. (I think this debate was brought up by the same guy twice already. This Uncle is REALLY getting old.)

Of course, the ladies in attendance would definitely want to make sure that the younger male that they are going steady with are matured. They don’t mind if the guy are being childish only at playful moments (i.e. teasing one another, cracking a joke, being silly etc.). They prefer to have a relationship that is fun and captivating. They, however, do mind of the mentality and the way the males behave when placed in a difficult situation.

Are the younger male able to exercise the maturity needed in solving the task? Are they responsible for their own actions? Have they consider all other options? Did they make the right decision? Did their decision sideline anyone?

For the older women, they are looking for the right one to spend the rest of their lives with. They are not interested in short flings. They are different from the younger males. Younger males have time that older women doesn’t have. And the current Asian perception/mentality is that it is normal for men to date younger women.